March 1, 2006

• Asserter . . .

  
  
  
  
  
  
  
  

  the Asserter Test finished!

  you chose AY – your Enneagram type is EIGHT. “I must be strong” Asserters are direct, self-reliant, self-confident, and protective. How to Get Along with Me Stand up for yourself… and me. Be confident, strong, and direct. Don’t gossip about me or betray my trust. Be vulnerable and share your feelings. See and acknowledge my tender, vulnerable side. Give me space to be alone. Acknowledge the contributions I make, but don’t flatter me. I often speak in an assertive way. Don’t automatically assume it’s a personal attack. When I scream, curse, and stomp around, try to remember that’s just the way I am. What I Like About Being a Eight being independent and self-reliant being able to take charge and meet challenges head on being courageous, straightforward, and honest getting all the enjoyment I can out of life supporting, empowering, and protecting those close to me upholding just causes What’s Hard About Being a Eight overwhelming people with my bluntness; scaring them away when I don’t intend to being restless and impatient with others’ incompetence sticking my neck out for people and receiving no appreciation for it never forgetting injuries or injustices putting too much pressure on myself getting high blood pressure when people don’t obey the rules or when things don’t go right Eights as Children Often are independent; have an inner strength and a fighting spirit are sometimes loners seize control so they won’t be controlled fugure out others’ weaknesses attack verbally or physically when provoked take charge in the family because they perceive themselves as the strongest, or grow up in difficult or abusive surroundings Eights as Parents are often loyal, caring, involved, and devoted are sometimes overprotective can be demanding, controlling, and rigid Renee Baron & Elizabeth Wagele The Enneagram Made Easy Discover the 9 Types of People HarperSanFrancisco, 1994, 161 pages You liked the test? so please RATE it You are not completely happy with the result?! You chose AY Would you rather have chosen: BY (FOUR) CY (SIX) AX (SEVEN) AZ (THREE)

  
  
  
  
  
  
  
  

  My test tracked 2 variables How you compared to other people your age and gender: You scored higher than 80% on ABC You scored higher than 54% on XYZ

  
  
  
  
  

  Link: The Quick and Painless ENNEAGRAM Test written by felk on Ok Cupid, home of the 32-Type Dating Test

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